"Take heed, therefore, unto yourselves,
and to all the flock, over
which the Holy Ghost hath made
you overseers, to feed the church of
God, which he hath purchased
with his own blood." Acts 20:28
"I will give you shepherds after
my own heart, who will feed you
with knowledge and understanding."
Jer. 3:15
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WHEN TO CALL YOUR PASTOR
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There Is to Be a Wedding
You should contact the pastor
before the wedding date is set.
The pastor requires at least three
counseling sessions, so it is advisable
to contact him well in
advance of the wedding. Early
notification places your wedding
on the pastor's schedule and on
the calendar to use the church.
There Is Illness
The pastor is as near as your telephone.
Yet many members will
call everyone except the pastor.
The pastor truly wants to know
when you are sick. You take a risk
when you rely on someone else to
get the information to him. Your
call when you, your loved ones or
friends are ill or going to the hospital
is appreciated.
There is Death
You should contact the pastor
immediately (no matter the time or
day) when there is death in the family.
It is necessary to consult the
pastor before funeral arrangements
are made. The funeral director cannot
schedule funerals in the church.
The pastor also provides comfort
and counseling during these difficult
times.
You Have a Spiritual Problem
Many parishioners have questions
and fears that bring discomfort. The
pastor is your spiritual advisor. He
will discuss with you how faith in
God can help you to be victorious
over your difficulties or problems.
You are Facing a Serious
Problem
Your pastor has been trained to help
people with their personal, family
and business problems. The impartial
judgment of a spiritual leader,
combined with his prayers for
divine guidance, will enable you to
face your difficulty with confidence.
Don’t allow your problem to get too
big for you.
Someone Desires to Become
a Christian
“. . . that likewise joy in heaven over
one sinner that repenteth. . .” This
is a heavenly activity. Happy indeed
is the pastor who is asked to talk to
someone who desires to become a
Christian. The pastor wants to
know about friends and family
members who are interested in
knowing more about Christian life.
These are just a few of the instances
where you should seek the involvement
of your pastor. Conflict and
confusion may arise when the pastor
is called after all decisions have
been made. It may require changing
dates, redoing programs, etc. “Let
all things be done decently and in
order.”
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